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Relation of patience and caring, self reliance 

What I understand from reading is that it tries to transmit a message to us, that we must trust in ourselves, there it is

 where the value of patience comes in, because there are many people who are able to trust themselves, but there are some that are difficult for them and to change that they enter into a process where they gradually face their business and begin to have confidence in them

we must rely on our own conclusions, decisions, tastes, or way of being and ignore any opinion of the world (unless it is an opinion and constructive criticism) because we own our lives and not allow society handle us, much less fashions or follow "the pack" We live in the world, yes, but only in the sense of consumption, we do not live as the world wants, an example is the difference of cultures that exist in the world, never find one equal to another and for that reason each country has its customs and ideas.

also when we talk about the value of caring is when we should not let ourselves be carried away by the insecurities that lead us and be careful when our society wants to handle us and make us all have the same thoughts and ideas that is why we must be patient and tolerant in many situations of disagreement or inequality, in the end the world can not tell us how to think or act, it depends on each person, we must also have well developed the value of patience, as this can help us avoid conflicts and many other things that could be annoying or unpleasant before life and the world 
For me an example where I fulfill the value of patience related to the book when I start to share my ideas or thoughts on some topic no matter what others say because there is always going to be someone who will criticize that thought or you can see my ideas like something stupid, but in the end in my opinion and nobody can intervene in that